Blog, Conflict Resolution, Fairness, Preparing for Mediation, Self-Determination
Red Flag or Gold Star? Most couples that come to see me have chosen divorce mediation because they would like to arrive at a fair settlement with as little acrimony and expense as possible. These couples have a sense of practicality and confidence in their ability to...
Blog, Fairness, Rational Thinking, Self-Determination, The Law
In my experience, most couples that wish to work with a divorce mediator have a demeanor that’s open to arriving at a fair settlement. Sometimes, however, issues pop up that arouse great passion and the idea of what’s fair is challenged. Lately, I’ve mediated some...
Blog, Custom, Empathy, Self-Determination
Last month, to celebrate Valentines Day, I went to two programs on divorce. In the morning the topic was Gray Divorce sponsored by the Family and Divorce Mediation Council of greater NYC. In the afternoon, a book launch for a workbook about prenuptial agreements....
Blog, Conflict Resolution, Control, Custom, Self-Determination
As a divorce mediator, I have seen couples reap the benefits of taking control over decision-making during divorce. Mediation allows them to focus on the important and extremely personal details of their lives and shape better settlements. With so much on the line,...
Blog, Empathy, Fairness, Self-Determination
You know those commercials that are designed to pull your heartstrings by showing children or animals in need. Like most people I have a really hard time watching those. They are designed, complete with Sara MacLachlan playing in the background, to make us feel guilty...
Blog, Managing Emotions, Self-Determination
Your comfort zone at home is in your favorite chair complete with remote control and snack. At work, your comfort zone is the been there and done that of projects. The comfort part of your various life zones is the product of routine predictability and familiarity....
